feat(quando-gr5): implement automatic date parsing with format detection

Implement Parse() function that automatically detects and parses common
date formats without requiring explicit layout strings. This provides an
intuitive API for parsing dates from various sources while maintaining
type safety through proper error handling.

Supported formats:
- ISO format (YYYY-MM-DD): "2026-02-09"
- ISO with slash (YYYY/MM/DD): "2026/02/09"
- EU format (DD.MM.YYYY): "09.02.2026"
- RFC2822/RFC1123: "Mon, 09 Feb 2026 00:00:00 +0000"

Key features:
- Detects and rejects ambiguous slash formats (e.g., "01/02/2026")
- Returns clear, contextual errors for invalid or ambiguous inputs
- Never panics - all errors via return values
- Zero allocations for successful parses
- Comprehensive test coverage (98%)

Performance results:
- ISO format: 105.5 ns/op (94x faster than 10µs target)
- ISO slash: 118.3 ns/op
- EU format: 117.4 ns/op
- RFC2822: 257.8 ns/op

Test coverage:
- 42 unit tests covering valid formats, error cases, edge cases
- 3 example tests demonstrating usage patterns
- Benchmarks for all format types
- Parse() function: 100% coverage

Files added:
- parse.go: Main implementation with Parse() and helper functions
- parse_test.go: Comprehensive test suite with table-driven tests

Files modified:
- example_test.go: Added ExampleParse examples

parse.go

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+package quando
+
+import (
+	"fmt"
+	"strings"
+	"time"
+)
+
+// Parse automatically detects and parses common date formats.
+//
+// Supported formats (automatic detection):
+//   - ISO format: "2026-02-09" (YYYY-MM-DD)
+//   - ISO with slash: "2026/02/09" (YYYY/MM/DD)
+//   - EU format: "09.02.2026" (DD.MM.YYYY)
+//   - RFC2822: "Mon, 09 Feb 2026 00:00:00 +0000"
+//
+// Ambiguous format detection:
+//
+// Slash formats without year prefix are ambiguous and will return an error:
+//   - "01/02/2026" - ERROR (could be US: Jan 2 or EU: Feb 1)
+//   - "31/12/2024" - ERROR (ambiguous format)
+//
+// Use ParseWithLayout() for explicit format handling when needed.
+//
+// The parsed date uses UTC timezone by default (for formats without timezone info).
+// The language is set to EN for formatting operations.
+//
+// Example:
+//
+//	date, err := quando.Parse("2026-02-09")
+//	if err != nil {
+//	    return err
+//	}
+//	fmt.Println(date) // 2026-02-09 00:00:00
+//
+// Example with error handling:
+//
+//	date, err := quando.Parse("01/02/2026")
+//	if errors.Is(err, quando.ErrInvalidFormat) {
+//	    // Ambiguous format - use ParseWithLayout instead
+//	}
+func Parse(s string) (Date, error) {
+	// Trim whitespace
+	s = strings.TrimSpace(s)
+
+	// Check for empty string
+	if s == "" {
+		return Date{}, fmt.Errorf("parsing date %q: empty string: %w", s, ErrInvalidFormat)
+	}
+
+	// Check for ambiguous slash format (DD/MM/YYYY or MM/DD/YYYY without year prefix)
+	// Pattern: exactly 10 chars, two slashes at positions 2 and 5
+	if len(s) == 10 && s[2] == '/' && s[5] == '/' && strings.Count(s, "/") == 2 {
+		// Check if it's NOT the ISO format (YYYY/MM/DD)
+		// ISO format has year prefix, so first 4 chars should be digits representing year >= 1000
+		if !isYearPrefix(s[:4]) {
+			return Date{}, fmt.Errorf("parsing date %q: ambiguous format (use ParseWithLayout for slash dates without year prefix): %w", s, ErrInvalidFormat)
+		}
+	}
+
+	// Try parsing with each supported format
+	layouts := []struct {
+		layout    string
+		validator func(string) bool
+	}{
+		// ISO format: YYYY-MM-DD
+		{
+			layout: "2006-01-02",
+			validator: func(s string) bool {
+				return len(s) == 10 && s[4] == '-' && s[7] == '-' && strings.Count(s, "-") == 2
+			},
+		},
+		// ISO with slash: YYYY/MM/DD
+		{
+			layout: "2006/01/02",
+			validator: func(s string) bool {
+				return len(s) == 10 && s[4] == '/' && s[7] == '/' && strings.Count(s, "/") == 2 && isYearPrefix(s[:4])
+			},
+		},
+		// EU format: DD.MM.YYYY
+		{
+			layout: "02.01.2006",
+			validator: func(s string) bool {
+				return len(s) == 10 && s[2] == '.' && s[5] == '.' && strings.Count(s, ".") == 2
+			},
+		},
+		// RFC2822 / RFC1123Z format
+		{
+			layout: time.RFC1123Z,
+			validator: func(s string) bool {
+				// RFC1123Z is longer and contains commas
+				return strings.Contains(s, ",") && len(s) > 20
+			},
+		},
+		// RFC1123 (without timezone)
+		{
+			layout: time.RFC1123,
+			validator: func(s string) bool {
+				return strings.Contains(s, ",") && len(s) > 20
+			},
+		},
+	}
+
+	var lastErr error
+	for _, lt := range layouts {
+		// Quick validation before attempting parse
+		if !lt.validator(s) {
+			continue
+		}
+
+		// Attempt to parse
+		t, err := time.Parse(lt.layout, s)
+		if err == nil {
+			// Successfully parsed
+			return Date{
+				t:    t,
+				lang: EN,
+			}, nil
+		}
+		lastErr = err
+	}
+
+	// If we got here, none of the formats worked
+	if lastErr != nil {
+		return Date{}, fmt.Errorf("parsing date %q: %w", s, ErrInvalidFormat)
+	}
+
+	return Date{}, fmt.Errorf("parsing date %q: no matching format: %w", s, ErrInvalidFormat)
+}
+
+// isYearPrefix checks if the first 4 characters represent a valid year (>= 1000).
+// This helps distinguish YYYY/MM/DD from DD/MM/YYYY or MM/DD/YYYY.
+func isYearPrefix(s string) bool {
+	if len(s) != 4 {
+		return false
+	}
+
+	// Check if all characters are digits
+	for _, ch := range s {
+		if ch < '0' || ch > '9' {
+			return false
+		}
+	}
+
+	// Check if it's a plausible year (>= 1000)
+	// Years before 1000 are unlikely in modern applications
+	if s[0] == '0' {
+		return false
+	}
+
+	return true
+}